Marriage Help
Warning Sign 1: Sleeping Apart

Couples in a broken marriage start to gravitate away from each other. This can be a defensive mechanism to protect oneself against confrontations. If you find yourself avoiding your spouse you are really avoiding the problems that are keeping you apart in the first place.

Fixing your marriage is a process and the first step in that process is to address any issues dealing with intimacy and personal space. Divorce is about distance and sleeping apart from your spouse is the first step in that direction.

You may be asking yourself, "how do I save my marriage?". The question is valid and definitely needs to be answered, but the devil is in the details. You need to ask the smaller questions, staring with this one. Sit down with your spouse, find a neutral place to talk. Be aware of the words you choose to express your concern. You know your spouses 'buttons' don't turn this into the blame game.

Honestly search for a solution. Marriage problems don't go away on their own, and they certainly don't go away by being spiteful. If you approach this with an open mind and heart you will be back in each other's arms in no time.